Since Fernbees’ establishment in 2022, we have encouraged a nurturing environment where children and residents, fondly known as ‘GrandBees’, grow and learn together.
Having experienced the value of intergenerational connections firsthand, our family were inspired to create a environment where young children and the elderly could interact meaningfully.
The idea for Fernbees grew from suggestions within our resident and staff communities, combined with the enthusiasm of our youngest family members.
Nursery Manager Momataz Ali said: “We believe that by engaging with people of all generations and abilities, our children develop key skills vital to their growth, including empathy, confidence, and social skills.
“At such a young age, children are free from preconceptions about age or disability and focus solely on the person in front of them. This innocence and openness foster a truly unique atmosphere.”
From spontaneous visits to planned activities, the bonds formed are profound.
Intergenerational Champion at Fernlea, Beverly Cleto, added: “The residents always look forward to seeing the children.
“Their favourite activity is Song and Rhyme Time, where they sing together enthusiastically.
“It’s beautiful to see how a simple activity brings so much joy.
“Sometimes, the residents even ask to see the children outside of planned activities. It brings them so much happiness just watching them play in the garden.”
The benefits of this intergenerational model go both ways.
For the children, interacting with older adults helps build respect, empathy, and patience.
Alex Gowland, Intergenerational Champion for Fernbees, explained: “The children develop a deeper understanding of the elderly’s needs. They learn empathy instinctively.
“I’ve seen children naturally helping residents during activities, like passing resources or playing volleyball with balloons during Sports Day.”
She said: “We had a little boy in the Baby Bees group who used to cling to us, feeling shy and reserved.
“But after visiting Fernlea regularly, he opened up and now enthusiastically enjoys the activities.
“It’s amazing to see how much he has grown.”
The emotional benefits for the residents are equally profound.
Beverly added: “The interactions bring a sense of purpose and joy to our residents.
“Even those who are usually hesitant to participate in activities get involved when they see it helps the children.
“It makes them feel young again, like they’re part of the fun and energy.”
One of the most uplifting aspects of Fernbees is the deep bonds that develop between the children and residents.
Beverly smiled: “When they recognise each other, it’s magical.
“If a resident is absent, the children will ask about them and genuinely care.
“It shows that real friendships are being made.”
To strengthen these bonds even further, we are implementing a ‘buddy system’, pairing specific children with residents.
Alex said: “This helps build consistency and deeper relationships. It’s about truly understanding each other’s needs and growing together.”
Love, respect, and mutual growth
We were proud to receive an Ofsted ‘Good’ rating in 2024, affirming our commitment to high-quality early childhood education.
Fernbees Day Nursery is more than just a place of learning – it’s a community where age is just a number, and connections are built on love, respect, and mutual growth.